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Copyright 1990 Pat McGregor all rights reserved.
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"Averting One's Eyes -- Ethical approaches to Postmastering"
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Author Profile
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Pat McGregor
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Computing Systems Consultant II
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Network Systems Division of Information Technology Division
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5115 IST Bldg.
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2200 Bonisteel Blvd.
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Ann Arbor, MI 48109-2099
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(313) 764-9430
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Pat_McGregor@um.cc.umich.edu (Internet)
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UserW02V@umichum (BITNET)
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Institutional Profile:
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Name: The University of Michigan
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Location: Ann Arbor, MI
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Size:
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Students: 36,338 (Fall, 1989 enrollment)
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Faculty: 2,882.33 FTE
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Staff: 17,573.28 FTE
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The Information Technology Division supports over 50,000 users. We
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have no way to know how many academics, administrators, and library
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users we support, because we have no way to monitor usage at our
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over 2000 public workstations. In addition, all the offices on
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campus (staff, faculty, and graduate student) and every dorm room
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and family housing unit have data ports, of which approximately 60%
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are turned on.
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ITD Network Systems employs 198 people, both full and part-time.
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Abstract
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Being an electronic postmaster requires diligence, knowledge of
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mailing systems on many mail networks and host operating systems,
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and the ability to sit in front of a workstation, trying to
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decipher bounced mail headers, for long hours every week.
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It also requires that the postmasters be scrupulously ethical about
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the confidentiality of the mail that passes in front of them,
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despite the fact that sometimes in order to clear up a mail problem
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the text of the message comes up on the screen.
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This paper explores some strategies used by campus postmasters on
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several campuses, and discusses some relevant issues of security,
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ethics, and responsible behavior.
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TEXT
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When the best way to send information to a colleague was to type it
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up, stick it in an envelope and entrust it to a postal carrier, few
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people had worries that the contents of that envelope would be seen
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by anyone but the intended recipient. "Tampering with the mails"
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was a federal offense, and the FBI would come after an offender
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with sirens screaming.
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Now, when electronic messages containing secret research results,
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resumes, corporate business plans, and love letters are flying
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around the world, some users have valid concerns about the
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confidentiality of their messages. Are they really "confidential"?
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Can anything that passes over a phone line be considered secure?
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What happens if there is a machine problem, or an incorrect
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address, or any of a dozen known mail disasters? Who sees the mail?
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As postmasters at the University of Michigan, my colleagues and I
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see more than a hundred bounced messages a week. We have no
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technological mechanism to keep us from reading the text of these
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messages; only our personal ethical systems and a code of
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responsibility for postmasters at our site keeps us from reading
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the text of users' messages. The question of confidentiality, and
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what responsibility postmasters have to keep the contents of mail
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confidential, is one that arises in conversation between
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postmasters, and in inquiries from users, on a regular basis.
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I decided to poll a group of postmasters to see how they felt about
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the issue, what guidelines they used, and what responsibility they
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felt toward the users' text.
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Methodology
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Subjects: Sixty-nine people at academic, public, private, and
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commercial sites responded to a survey sent to 136 postmasters. I
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sent the survey to a list of postmasteres the University of
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Michigan postmasters have dealt with in the last year or two, or
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who were on a list of postmasters in Michigan. I recognize that
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this is by no means a majority of the available postmasters around
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the world, but I knew from dealing with most of them on and off
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through the past years that they were responsive to mail from other
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postmasters and from users. (This in itself may be anomalous, but I
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choose to hope not!) I hoped this meant I would get a large return
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of my surveys, and I am quite pleased with my 51% return.
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Distribution: The survey instrument was distributed and returned by
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electronic mail. In one or two instances respondents had questions
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about the survey, and these clarification conversations were also
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held electronically.
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Statistical method: We(1) analyzed the responses to the survey
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statistically with the goal of identifying and describing various
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groups and perspectives among the postmasters who responded. The
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survey combined closed-ended and open-ended questions; the former
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were coded for data entry directly from the survey. I grouped the
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open-ended responses to each question into a smaller number of
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categories; these categories were then coded as a series of
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dichotomous variables. This procedure facilitated later analysis by
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accepting any number of responses to a question from each
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postmaster who responded. After the data were entered, SPSSx
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(Statistical Package for the Social Sciences) was used to generate
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frequency and crosstab distributions. SPSSx also includes a
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multiple response procedure to facilitate tabulation of responses
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when each respondent could make any number of responses. From the
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(voluminous) output of these procedures, I could ascertain which
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attitudes and behaviors were congruent with a self-description of
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"confidential" and which were considered a central focus of
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confidentiality less often; these findings are presented in more
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detail below.
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Who responded to this survey?
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The average postmaster who responded is twenty-nine, has worked as
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a postmaster for two years, and supports 1500 users. He (only four
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of my respondents were female) works on a VMS or Unix machine
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that's devoted primarily to academic work, and has a bachelor's
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degree.
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Postmasters from all sorts of systems responded, including several
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from foreign countries: Canada, Ireland, Australia, and Japan. They
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ranged in age from twenty-one to fifty-three, and used eighteen
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different kinds of machines and operating systems. Only one
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respondent had been dealing with electronic mail for over ten
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years, while the majority had been in their jobs less than three
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years. Eighty percent had at least a college degree, but sixteen
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percent had only a high-school education and further on-the-job
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training.
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Some served as few as ten users, while the highest number of users
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was fifty thousand. The systems represented were overwhelmingly
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academic: fifty-three academic systems, four commercial, two public
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access systems, and four which were research or private use only.
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Defining confidentiality
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Overwhelmingly, when asked if they had a responsibility to keep
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users' mail confidential, the postmasters said "Yes". 94% of those
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who responded considered this a prime responsibility. (The other
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six percent, who were all on public or commercial systems,
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indicated that their users were not supposed to be using the mails
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for private or confidential mail, and therefore the postmasters
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felt no responsibility to keep the mails confidential.) Some
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postmasters felt this was a professional responsibility. Said one,
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"Unprofessionalism is the only reason for not respecting user
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privacy." Others cited the Electronic Communications Privacy Act of
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1986, which requires that system owners keep confidential, under
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penalty of law, the mail messages of users on that system. Some
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felt that responsibility for confidentiality went beyond the
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message text, and extended to traffic analysis as well. To quote
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one postmaster:
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Often traffic analysis is as revealing as actual message contents.
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One example of this from my own experience came from an affair
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between a faculty member and a secretary (both are married, not to
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each other). I was perusing the mail logs and noticed a lot of
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traffic between these two, and I thought it was a little unusual
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since these two would not normally have any job-related reasons for
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such extensive communication. About six months later the affair
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became common knowledge, and at that point I realized I was
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probably the first person to know about their affair.
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I have a medical background, and keeping such matters confidential
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is second nature to me. Other postmasters without such a background
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would do well to examine the medical profession for some lessons on
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how to handle confidential material that strays into their path.
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To look or not to look -- that is the question
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When I began this survey, I was working on the assumption that most
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postmasters work as my colleagues and I do: that the text (2) of
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the message was not to be read under any circumstances, and that
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should we happen to see the text, we forget it immediately and do
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not use any information we might gain from the text of the message.
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I quickly discovered that we are in the minority.
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Most of the postmasters who said mail was confidential also said
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there were legitimate reasons to look at the text of messages (48
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out of 69, or 78%). By far the most common reason cited was to help
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re-direct the message. 53% of the respondents said that they would
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read the users' message for clues to help send the message back to
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the original sender or on to the intended recipient.(3) Another
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common reason was to scan the messages for improper or
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inappropriate use of the mails -- 29% look for harassing messages,
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illegal transactions, attempts to break into the system, etc.
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(Interestingly enough, most of the postmasters who said that they
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regularly scan the mails say that they use something like an editor
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scan to do this, rather than reading the contents of all the mail
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messages themselves. Ten respondents, however, stated categorically
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that scanning the mail for any reason was improper.)
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Postmasters in this study leave some of the responsibility on the
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users, too. "Accidents happen", commented ten in their responses.
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One respondent put it succinctly:
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Electronic mail is not a secure medium. It's the senders'
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responsibility to ensure the privacy of their messages. If they're
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not sure of the address they're sending to, they shouldn't put
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anything confidential in the text. Anything they don't want seen,
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and read, should be encrypted.(4)
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When reading through the postmasters' comments, it was clear that
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most of them strongly believe that they act in a manner consistent
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with their ethical systems, and that they have given a lot of
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thought to confidentiality in mail systems. Confidentiality, it
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seems, consists in not looking unless you have to, and if you have
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to, treating what you see with respect. Or, as one of our foreign
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postmasters said, "... a postmaster is in the same position as a
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doctor -- peeking at personal e-mail is rather akin to viewing
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inside somebody's underpants -- there MAY be sound reasons for
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examining the contents but going out of one's way to do so is a bit
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kinky :-)"(5)
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Moral Dilemmas
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Sometimes what a postmaster sees creates ethical problems. If a
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postmaster sees a message in which personal or secret information
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is revealed, a postmaster may keep the information confidential but
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be troubled by it. Some find themselves in possession of
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information which indicates that an illegal transaction or
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inappropriate use of the system is going on. Most (65%) of the
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postmasters said that if they found information indicating a system
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abuse, they would immediately act on it. Their highest
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responsibility is to protect the system, and they take that
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responsibility very seriously.
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Personal information, like the affair that was mentioned above, is
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a different matter. Some of the postmasters indicated in their
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commentary that they tried to forget such information. Some created
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technological barriers for themselves to prevent the viewing of
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such information. Most hoped that they never had to make a decision
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about dealing with personal information that came into their
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possession.(6)
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Another dilemma for postmasters comes when they have permission to
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read the contents of users' mailboxes by virtue of their position.
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Fifty-three of our postmasters (77%) have privileged access. (It
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was in asking this question that we discovered how many hats most
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postmasters wear. Twenty-nine of them mentioned that they are also
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system administrators, and have unlimited access to any system file
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by virtue of that position. The others have unlimited access merely
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to accomplish their postmaster responsibilities.) However, in
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comparing the folks who believed there were good reasons to look in
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users' mailboxes against those who had access, only eight
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postmasters (less than half of those who believe in regularly
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scanning mail) believed this access should be regularly used.
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Technical fixes
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Technical fixes were also not common for general prevention against
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seeing text. Less than one-quarter of the respondents considered
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themselves to have a technological barrier to seeing the users'
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text. Only 25% of those who had a technical fix had a hard fix
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(that is, one which they had to exert special privileges or change
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code in order to see the message text): 19% used a filter which
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kept the text out of reach, and 6% encrypted the message text,
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leaving only the headers in the clear.
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The others who considered themselves to have a technological fix
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were split half and half on a honor system where they only looked
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at bounced messages which couldn't get back to the sender or on to
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the recipient(7), or only read spool or file headers.
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"I close my eyes"
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By far the largest number of postmasters did not feel they had a
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technological barrier to seeing mail. Of those folks (80% of the
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total respondents), the three most common methods mentioned(8) as
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ways they avoided looking at text were to look away (45%), adjust
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the windowing on their screens to exclude the text (or attention
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out before the text scrolled by) (17%), or to ask the user's
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permission if it was impossible to fix the problem without reading
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the text (9%). (Interestingly enough, of those folks who said they
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wanted the user's permission before they went poking around in a
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mailbox, only two would use that permission even if they had it.)
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It was in asking about methods postmasters used to keep themselves
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from seeing users' text that the strongest statements about
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confidentiality and ethical behavior came out. As one of postmaster
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said, when asked the method he used:
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Self-restraint. The same thing that keeps me from performing most
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other unethical acts. Given my level of technical expertise, I do
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not regard "security systems" as any sort of deterrent.
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It's worth noting here that a large percentage (68%) of the
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respondents mentioned that they were simply too swamped with work
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to bother reading other people's mail, even if they were inclined
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to do so.
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Harassment, obscenity, and other inappropriate mail
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Unfortunately, as the telephone companies have discovered, some
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people want to use this marvelous new medium as a playground, or as
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a method of inflicting pain on another person. Electronic mail is a
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perfect opportunity to send harassing, obscene, or otherwise
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inappropriate messages to another person.
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While postmasters generally have given a lot of thought to their
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philosophies concerning what to do about user text, they are less
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certain about incidences of inappropriate mail. Seventeen of our
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postmasters (25% of the total) believe that there has never been
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such an incident at their site. (I confess, I'm inclined to believe
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that they simply don't know about it. In our experience, users will
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wait a long time without reporting harassment or obscene mail
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unless it's widely known that they have a resource for this
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situation. When we began advertising that there was a special
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office for handling these problems, reporting went up.)
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Some of them don't handle cases of inappropriate mail (29%). Of
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those who don't handle it themselves, four pass cases along to
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campus security or the local police, and twenty-two let some other
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administrator handle it.
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A clear division of philosophy showed in deciding what to do about
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abusive or inappropriate mail when it happened. When asked whether
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they would wait for complaints or pursue a situation if they
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stumbled across one, 59% said they would wait for complaints, 23%
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said they would pursue it, and 10% said they would have to make a
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case-by-case determination.
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By and large, the largest group were those who would wait for
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complaints. "One person's harassment is another's amusement" was a
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frequently expressed sentiment (41%). However, there were some
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cases where postmasters felt obliged to step in, as in this
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comment:
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Material of a libelous nature, for example, is permissible in a
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private communication... Certain material is not permissible ....
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Child pornography is a good example of this. The Supreme Court just
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ruled that private possession of such material is illegal (as
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opposed to distributing it, which has been illegal for quite some
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time). Although I have never encountered such material, if I
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happened to find some in the course of my duties as postmaster I
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would have to contact the person responsible and ask them to remove
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it from the system. Failure to do so would make me (and the
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institution I work for) liable in any subsequent prosecution of the
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people involved.
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Other reasons for pursuing a problem that dropped into one's lap
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were system abuses (such as chain letters, attempts to break into
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the system or propagate virii or worms) or mail that came from
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another system. Off-site mail would, generally, be referred back to
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a postmaster at the originating site.
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"Mail is mail"
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Mailing lists(9) and newsgroups constitute a large part of the
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traffic on the network. Except for the case of usenet news, which
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is read with a special program, mailing lists are indistinguishable
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from most other mail messages.
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Because of mailing lists' public nature, I wondered how postmasters
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at other site regarded mailing list messages in terms of
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confidentiality.
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When asked if they considered mailing list mail in the same class
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as "regular" electronic mail, 42% said no. Of those folks who gave
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reasons for this answer, sixteen said that mailing list messages
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were intended for public distribution and thus not intended to be
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confidential or private. Twelve folks compared public mailing lists
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to junk mail or newspapers.
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The 56% who said "yes" indicated that they considered mailing lists
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like any other mail in terms of a need for confidentiality and
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respect for users' privacy. Sixteen felt this way because some
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lists have restricted access and fourteen commented on the
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politically or personally sensitive contents of some mailing list
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discussions. Eleven postmasters felt that the identities of people
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who subscribed to mailing lists should be kept confidential,
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because of the personality or interest profile that could be
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inferred from a complete compilation of the sorts of lists a user
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subscribed to. Postmasters were sensitive to this:
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Although ostensibly anyone can get access to the same info by
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joining the list, membership itself on some lists may be considered
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sensitive. For instance, there is a gay-oriented list which one of
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my faculty members subscribed to, and the messages all began
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bouncing to the postmaster when he incorrectly set a forwarding
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address. This person may or may not care who knows about his
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subscription, but I can see where he might consider it sensitive
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information.
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Written ethics guidelines As networking constitutes a greater part
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of our lives, more and more personal information is loose on the
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nets. Codes of postmaster behavior, once handed down from guru to
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guru, may now need to be more formalized. Access to personal
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material is more prevalent, and mail is particularly susceptible to
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invisible monitoring.
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As one postmaster said: No byte of information in any computer
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system is immune to the knowledgeable systems programmer. The point
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here is that you can tell if your letter from Grandma has been
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opened, but you cannot tell if your electronic mail message has.
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This makes snooping easier and more prevalent by default. 83% of
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the respondents said they didn't have a written code of ethics for
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postmasters. Reasons given for why there was no policy varied
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across the board: 23% felt they didn't need such a thing, either
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because they wouldn't hire someone as a postmaster/system employee
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who wouldn't behave ethically or because postmaster ethics were
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common knowledge. 6% had orientation sessions in which postmaster
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ethics were discussed. 4% felt written policies of any sort were A
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Bad Idea. However, 15% of the total respondents wished there was a
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written policy, to help orient and train new postmasters or to
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cover gray areas. One quarter of those who had written policies
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felt that their general systems or employee policies covered
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postmasters as well as users. Two postmasters (both from religious
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private schools) indicated that Christian ethics covered the
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situation, and that they relied upon the Bible as a written policy
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for all occasions.
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Several postmasters commented that since the passage of the ECPA
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(10) in 1986, their sites have modified their systems use policies
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to include specifically use and misuse of mail.
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Major exceptions
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It's worth noting that commercial systems and public access systems
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had substantially differing views of user privacy with respect to
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mail than did academic systems. Of those who responded, nearly 10%
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were commercial or public access. The public access hosts were
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extremely sensitive to their liability should illicit activities
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take place on their hosts. One public access "sysop" explained his
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approach to confidentiality this way:
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The mail on [this system] is specifically disclaimed from ECPA
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privacy in light of the fact that I operate a BBS on the machine
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and have no wish to have the authorities come seize the machine if
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some user does something illegal. Even so, I tend to preserve the
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confidence of information gleaned from mail that has to be seen. I
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have an automatic process that scans the mail daily for particular
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keywords and phrases that would indicate that phreaks or crackers
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are communicating via my system. If there is a suspicious item, a
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copy is pulled for closer inspection. So far, I have only has to
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read mail to/from one pair of users and it turned out that they had
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misrepresented themselves and were kicked off the system
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Commercial systems were equally cautious. One postmaster who works
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for a company which reputedly screens its employees tightly for
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ethical and moral fiber had this to say:
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Attached you will find your mail survey. Some of the questions are
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rather interesting. [Our company] doesn't appear to have similar
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problems with ethics as do some of the universities. It probably
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has do with the fact that employees are screened before they are
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hired to ensure that their ethics fall in line with the companies.
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Unfortunately, universities don't have such luxury.
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In the questionnaire, I mention that there aren't any formal
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policies regarding email. I believe that email would be covered
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under the terms of employment, which also specify acceptable ethics
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behavior. If somebody was foolish enough to use a corporate asset
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to harass somebody, or cause harm or interruption of service due to
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"hacking", then they probably would be terminated.
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Demographic Differences
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I asked a number of demographic questions, intended to see if we
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could distinguish behaviors of philosophies based on age, gender,
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number of years as a postmaster, systems or software used, or
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number of users served. No major discrepancies in behavior turned
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up. It's possible that our statistical "universe" was too small to
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differentiate such behavior trends. It's also possible that
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postmasters all tend to behave in an ethically consistent manner,
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despite the demographic differences.
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"Satisfaction guaranteed"
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Processing this survey has been a learning experience, and not just
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because of learning to handle statistical analysis.
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My expectations of postmasters have been largely met -- I had hoped
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to discover that the electronic information transfer medium was
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watched over by folks who would respect my privacy within the
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constraints of the technology, and I have not been disappointed.
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I was surprised to see that there was no appreciable difference in
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approaches to ethical behavior among systems: some operating
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systems, such as Unix (tm), have a reputation for attracting
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mavericks; and some mail networks, such as BITNET, have extremely
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tight codes for appropriate behaviors. I was pleased to see that
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postmasters across the board regarded privacy and confidentiality
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as important, and would work to protect the system and the users'
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privacy equally.
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I would have liked to have seen more women as postmasters. Here at
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The University of Michigan, 50% of the postmasters and a large
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minority of the mail programmers are women. I hope that my sample
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is not representative of the larger whole, and that more than 12%
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of postmasters are women. (It's possible that many of the people
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who didn't respond to the question about gender were women. I have
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no way to tell.)
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On the whole, I think our users can be generally reassured that the
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electronic postmasters in their lives are concerned about the
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integrity of the mail system, both in terms of system security and
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user privacy. As electronic mail becomes a more prevalent method of
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communications (for both convenience, economic, and ecological
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reasons), it's nice to know that the tradition of confidentiality
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that we have grown to expect from our paper mail postmasters has
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been carried over into the electronic world.
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Footnotes
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(1) Erna-Lynne Bogue, a doctoral candidate in Social Work at the
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University of Michigan, and a SPSSx consultant, did all the SPSSx
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programming. She also taught me how to interpret the results,
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helped me pinpoint places to explore further, and encouraged me to
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learn a great deal about statistics while doing this project.
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(2) "Text" in this paper is defined to be the content of the
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message; the information that the user is transmitting.
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(3) Postmasters sometimes see messages in which the headers have
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been so thoroughly mangled that the origins are completely
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mysterious. For this reason, by the way, it's a good idea to
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include your name and electronic mail address at the end of your
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message, so that your recipient will know what you think your
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address is in case of problems.
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(4) Or, as another put it, "Users put the most astonishing things
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in electronic mail, and assume that nobody will ever see it. It
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never fails to amaze me the things that people say to each other
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over electronic mail that they probably don't say to each other in
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the bedroom."
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(5) For those of you who may be unfamiliar with the "smiley face"
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in electronic communications, turn the page sideways. The ) is a
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mouth.
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(6) One anecdote is particularly telling. To quote the respondent:
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[The story starts with a description of a bug in a mailer that left
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a number of messages in the postmaster's queue. The respondent
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describes his usual practice of reading only the first 30 lines,
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since usually those 30 lines are only header material.]
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One of the dead items originated locally. Hence, it had
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comparatively few headers, and [the first 30 lines] took care of
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all the headers and showed me the body as well. It was from one of
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my co-workers, written to a friend with whom I also work
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professionally on the side from time to time. Although I didn't
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intend to read it, certain words caught my eye without really
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looking deliberately, and it became immediately obvious that my
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co-worker and this friend were having an affair.
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To say that this made me uncomfortable is to put the matter most
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mildly. My co-worker is married and the co-worker's spouse is also
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an acquaintance of mine. And I have a little (but not much)
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professional contact with the spouse as well. It was clear that the
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co-worker had not informed the spouse of the matter.
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The friend is also married and the friend's spouse was not aware,
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either. I have to work with my co-worker and frequently I am in a
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position where I can't really afford not to work with the friend.
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Now, whether two people want to carry on an affair with one another
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is mostly their own business. Whether I agree with it or not is
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almost entirely irrelevant, especially considering that my beliefs
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do not coincide with my friend's and my co-worker's anyway. But now
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I was in a position where a co-worker whom I trusted was violating
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the spouse's trust. And likewise for the friend and the friend's
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spouse. It became obvious to me in rather short order that it was
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going to be difficult to work with either of them, knowing the lack
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of trust being shown to their respective spouses.
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After some considerable internal warring against myself over what
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to do, I approached my co-worker, explained what I'd learned and
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the (innocent) circumstances by which I'd learned it, and said that
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I thought there were 3 things that could be done. The two of them
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could break off the relationship; they could tell their spouses
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about it and (I suppose) get the spouses' approval for them to
|
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continue; or I could resign. There wasn't really any way I could
|
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see myself continuing to work with people that I had to trust in
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order to get work done, while knowing this violation of trust was
|
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going on. And I don't think I really cared which way the matter
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went.
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As it happened, they broke off the relationship. Whether spouses
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were told about the matter, I can't say.
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I have since written a small tool which looks at this type of dead
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letter to show me JUST the headers.
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(7) One postmaster called these trapped messages "bounce-o-grams".
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(8) Not all respondents made comments, of course, which is why
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sometimes the numbers in these sections dealing with commentary
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don't always add up.
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(9) "Mailing lists" are defined for the purposes of this paper to
|
|
be public or semi-public lists or digests, such as Info-IBMPC,
|
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INTER-L, or other such public discussions. Private mailing lists,
|
|
such as those created by individual users and which are not open
|
|
for the public to join, are not included.
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(10) Electronic Communications Privacy Act.
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